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I Need Advice

on May 10, 2015

and I know you ladies can help.  

I’ve been pretty open at work about our struggle since the principal blabbed my story anyways. There is a nice coworker (we’ll call her A) who is going on a year of trying. She talks to me openly about it, but only one other person at work knows besides me. 

Anywho, I feel like I want to text her and tell her I’m thinking about her today and let her know she’s not alone but it’s hard because I’m “on the other side” of fertility (even though we’re starting up again). 

Do I say something? If yes, what should I say? 


9 responses to “I Need Advice

  1. makingababyv says:

    I’d text her and say exactly what you just did: thinking of you today. You’re not alone. Call me if you want to talk.

  2. Yes.. Text her. 💜 She will appreciate your compassion.

  3. AndiePants says:

    Last mothers day our sister in law got us a gift and acknowledged us and it was really amazing to be seen on a day I otherwise felt invisible on. I think a text would be so wonderful.

  4. hannahlkuhn says:

    Yes. Say exactly what you. An “I’m thinking of you” goes so far.

  5. julieann081 says:

    I agree with others above. It means a lot to know someone is thinking about you. I would text her and say exactly what you have just said. ❤

  6. ksquared0710 says:

    Thanks, friends. I sent her a text that said, “Thinking of you today ❤️ -K” and she responded with, “Thanks! Happy Mother’s Day”. I just hope she doesn’t think I’m being rude. 😕

  7. loveh3 says:

    Yes, Text. It’s great to know that you have people to talk to esp if she knows what you have gone thru.

  8. I think saying your thinking of her is simple enough

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